05. 28. 12. 01:37 pm
あなたは天才だ。一般の人は、努力をしても、こんなレベルまではなれない。天才は極端に上手なところと下手なところがあるが、あなたはそうではないのが本当にすごいだと思う。
北野幸子
05. 05. 12. 10:40 pm ♥ 5

The Mirror Woman

My mum and I look alike. We really do. My mum used to pay a lot of attention to herself, think about her life with herself at the center, and enjoy good times with friends…just like what I’m doing now. However, somewhere along the journey from youth to marriage and to motherhood, something is lost and replaced. 

I think she pays more attention to family instead of herself, thinks about life with her family at her center, and dedicates most (if not all) of her time for our family. For a second, it makes me think…does marriage and building a family necessarily make someone lose herself? 

Being her reserved self, today my mum had her first reunion with her college friends. She put on her favorite blouse, picked up her favorite tote, applied her favorite shade of lipstick and asked me whether she’s ready for the reunion. Of course I said yes :) I have a beautiful mum :) And at that time, I realize that there is still this youthful girl inside her. And everything is not lost from that girl :)

When she got home, I saw her beaming while talking about her reunion. Now she’s going to have a reunion on a more regular basis. I hope it can revive more of the girl inside her :) 

03. 17. 12. 01:04 pm ♥ 2
私は強くして下さる方によって、何事でもする事ができる。
03. 03. 12. 09:59 pm ♥ 2
I am a woman in process. I’m just trying like everybody else. I try to take every conflict, every experience, and learn from it. Life is never dull.
Oprah Winfrey
02. 27. 12. 07:15 pm ♥ 122890
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neonindulgence:

sealedwithakisstiedwithabow:

abideinhislove:

stateofflux:

Daddy interrogates daughter to get a confession on who is her favorite parent.

now this is adorable

Okay, really though, I want a child. Now.

sorry for the swear at the beginning… but this is so funny haha. 

Cuteness overload

real cute <3

(Source: mikedaoo)

via andreasmichael
05. 18. 12. 09:00 pm ♥ 6759
via etiquetteforagentleman
03. 23. 12. 01:42 pm ♥ 1500

Indonesia from another perspective :)

floragustyani:

Hongkong? No it is Indonesia (Jakarta - Thamrin)

 

Spain? No it is Indonesia (Jakarta - Lapangan Banteng)

 

Shanghai - China? No it is Indonesia (Jakarta - Mangga Dua)

  

Sydney - Australia? No it is Indonesia (Makassar - Bandara Sultan Hasanuddin)

 

New Zealand? No it is Indonesia (Komodo Island)

 

Monaco? No it is Indonesia (Bunaken)

 

Somewhere in Africa? No it is Indonesia (Gunung Kidul)

 

Gaza? No it is Indonesia (Medan)

 

Singapore? No it is Indonesia (Surabaya)

US Highway? No it is Indonesia (Suramadu Bridge)

Halong Bay Vietnam? No it is Indonesia (Raja Ampat)

Mali - Africa? No it is Indonesia (Papua/Irian Jaya)

South America? No it is Indonesia (Bromo Mountain)

Caribbean? No it is Indonesia (Lombok)

Arab? No it is Indonesia (Aceh)

Maldives? No it is Indonesia (Bunaken)

Thailand? No it is Indonesia (Prambanan Temple)

Japan? No it is Indonesia (Medan Cosplayer)

 :O

so great..!!

(Source: itsnaboo)

via schaccalacca
03. 13. 12. 08:22 pm ♥ 5

On the street

It was my graduation day. I was walking down the street near my dorm when I saw this girl and this boy.

What caught my eye was that the wavy-haired girl was carrying a pair of black heels on her right hand. Then I started looking down to her feet. She was wearing a pair of Pantofel shoes that were apparently too big for her. Beside those Pantofel shoes, I saw a pair of feet only covered with damp socks. It rained earlier that day and thus the streets were wet.

Then I understood what was going on between the two. The girl’s feet hurt because of her heels, so the boy let her wear his shoes instead.

Their affection gives me hope :)

03. 02. 12. 09:12 pm ♥ 39296
lickypickystickyfree:



25 Napping Facts Every College Student Should Know

It makes you smarterAccording to Dr. Matthew Walker of the University of California, napping for as little as one hour resets your short-term memory and helps you learn facts more easily after you wake up.
Abandon all-nightersForegoing sleep by cramming all night reduces your ability to retain information by up to 40%. If you can, mix in a nap somewhere to refresh your hippocampus.
It doesn’t mean what you thinkIf you know you have to pull an all-nighter, try a “prophylactic nap.” It’s a short nap in advance of expected sleep deprivation that will help you stay alert for up to 10 hours afterwards.
You can’t avoid that down period after lunch by not eatingHuman bodies naturally go through two phases of deep tiredness, one between 2-4 a.m. and between 1-3 p.m. Skipping lunch won’t help this period of diminished alertness and coordination.
Pick the right timeAfter lunch in the early afternoon your body naturally gets tired. This is the best time to take a brief nap, as it’s early enough to not mess with your nighttime sleep.
Hour naps are greatA 60-minute nap improves alertness for 10 hours, although with naps over 45 minutes you risk what’s known as “sleep inertia,” that groggy feeling that may last for half an hour or more.
But short naps are bestFor healthy young adults, naps as short as 20, 10, or even 2 minutes can be all you need to get the mental benefits of sleep, without risking grogginess.
Drink coffee firstThe way this works is you drink a cup of coffee right before taking your 20-minute or half-hour nap, which is precisely how long caffeine takes to kick in. That way when you wake up, you’re not only refreshed, but ready to go.
The NASA napA little group called NASA discovered that just a 26-minute nap increases performance by 34% and alertness by 54%. Pilots take advantage of NASA naps while planes are on autopilot.
Can’t sleep? Don’t stressEven if you can’t fall asleep for a nap, just laying down and resting has benefits. Studies have found resting results in lowered blood pressure, which even some college kids have to worry about if they are genetically predisposed to high blood pressure.
Napping may save your lifeA multi-year Greek study found napping at least three times per week for at least 30 minutes resulted in a 37% lower death rate due to heart problems.
More nap benefits for the brainNot only will napping improve your alertness, it will also help your decision-making, creativity, and sensory perception.
But wait, there’s moreStudies have found napping raises your stamina 11%, increases ability to stay asleep all night by 12%, and lowers the time required to fall asleep by 14%.
The ultimate napAccording to Dr. Sara Mednick, the best nap occurs when REM sleep is in proportion to slow-wave sleep. Use her patented Take A Nap Nap Wheel to calculate what time of day you can nap to the max.
Fight the Freshman 15Research shows that women who sleep five hours at night are 32% more likely to experience major weight gain than those sleeping seven hours. A two-hour nap isn’t feasible for many, but napping is a good way to make up for at least some lost night sleep.
If it was good enough for them…Presidents JFK and Bill Clinton used to nap every day to help ease the heavy burden of ruling the free world. Of course, they also had other relaxation methods, but we won’t get into those.
Do like the Romans doIn ancient Rome, everyone, including children, retreated for a 2 or 3-hour nap after lunch. No doubt this is the reason the Roman empire lasted over 1,000 years
Don’t wait too longThe latest you want to wake up from a nap is five hours before bedtime, otherwise you risk not being able to fall asleep at night.
Sugar is not a good substitute for a napWhen we are tired, we instinctively reach for foods with a high glycemic index, but after the initial energy wears off, we’re left more tired than we were before.
It’s a good way to catch upIf it takes you less than five minutes to fall asleep at night, you are sleep deprived. If you never can seem to get to bed earlier at night, a mid-day nap is a great way to catch up on sleep.
Underclassmen need more sleepFreshmen and sophomores who are still in your teens: you need up to 10 hours of sleep to feel rested. So odds are, you are sleep-deprived.
You’ll have to leave the party soonerAfter one school-week of not getting enough sleep, three alcoholic drinks will affect you the same way six would when you are fully rested.
Don’t drive drowsyDon’t be afraid to take advantage of an “emergency nap” on the side of the road in your car. Every year, as many as 100,000 traffic fatalities are caused by sleepy people behind the wheel.
The Einstein MethodIf you are concerned about sleeping too long, do what Albert Einstein regularly did: hold a pencil while you’re drifting off, so when you fall asleep, the pencil dropping will wake you up. (We do not guarantee you will wake up with a 180 IQ.)
Missing sleep is worse at your ageFor people ages 18 to 24, sleep deprivation impairs performance more significantly than in other age brackets.
High-res

lickypickystickyfree:

25 Napping Facts Every College Student Should Know

  1. It makes you smarter
    According to Dr. Matthew Walker of the University of California, napping for as little as one hour resets your short-term memory and helps you learn facts more easily after you wake up.
  2. Abandon all-nighters
    Foregoing sleep by cramming all night reduces your ability to retain information by up to 40%. If you can, mix in a nap somewhere to refresh your hippocampus.
  3. It doesn’t mean what you think
    If you know you have to pull an all-nighter, try a “prophylactic nap.” It’s a short nap in advance of expected sleep deprivation that will help you stay alert for up to 10 hours afterwards.
  4. You can’t avoid that down period after lunch by not eating
    Human bodies naturally go through two phases of deep tiredness, one between 2-4 a.m. and between 1-3 p.m. Skipping lunch won’t help this period of diminished alertness and coordination.
  5. Pick the right time
    After lunch in the early afternoon your body naturally gets tired. This is the best time to take a brief nap, as it’s early enough to not mess with your nighttime sleep.
  6. Hour naps are great
    A 60-minute nap improves alertness for 10 hours, although with naps over 45 minutes you risk what’s known as “sleep inertia,” that groggy feeling that may last for half an hour or more.
  7. But short naps are best
    For healthy young adults, naps as short as 20, 10, or even 2 minutes can be all you need to get the mental benefits of sleep, without risking grogginess.
  8. Drink coffee first
    The way this works is you drink a cup of coffee right before taking your 20-minute or half-hour nap, which is precisely how long caffeine takes to kick in. That way when you wake up, you’re not only refreshed, but ready to go.
  9. The NASA nap
    A little group called NASA discovered that just a 26-minute nap increases performance by 34% and alertness by 54%. Pilots take advantage of NASA naps while planes are on autopilot.
  10. Can’t sleep? Don’t stress
    Even if you can’t fall asleep for a nap, just laying down and resting has benefits. Studies have found resting results in lowered blood pressure, which even some college kids have to worry about if they are genetically predisposed to high blood pressure.
  11. Napping may save your life
    A multi-year Greek study found napping at least three times per week for at least 30 minutes resulted in a 37% lower death rate due to heart problems.
  12. More nap benefits for the brain
    Not only will napping improve your alertness, it will also help your decision-making, creativity, and sensory perception.
  13. But wait, there’s more
    Studies have found napping raises your stamina 11%, increases ability to stay asleep all night by 12%, and lowers the time required to fall asleep by 14%.
  14. The ultimate nap
    According to Dr. Sara Mednick, the best nap occurs when REM sleep is in proportion to slow-wave sleep. Use her patented Take A Nap Nap Wheel to calculate what time of day you can nap to the max.
  15. Fight the Freshman 15
    Research shows that women who sleep five hours at night are 32% more likely to experience major weight gain than those sleeping seven hours. A two-hour nap isn’t feasible for many, but napping is a good way to make up for at least some lost night sleep.
  16. If it was good enough for them…
    Presidents JFK and Bill Clinton used to nap every day to help ease the heavy burden of ruling the free world. Of course, they also had other relaxation methods, but we won’t get into those.
  17. Do like the Romans do
    In ancient Rome, everyone, including children, retreated for a 2 or 3-hour nap after lunch. No doubt this is the reason the Roman empire lasted over 1,000 years
  18. Don’t wait too long
    The latest you want to wake up from a nap is five hours before bedtime, otherwise you risk not being able to fall asleep at night.
  19. Sugar is not a good substitute for a nap
    When we are tired, we instinctively reach for foods with a high glycemic index, but after the initial energy wears off, we’re left more tired than we were before.
  20. It’s a good way to catch up
    If it takes you less than five minutes to fall asleep at night, you are sleep deprived. If you never can seem to get to bed earlier at night, a mid-day nap is a great way to catch up on sleep.
  21. Underclassmen need more sleep
    Freshmen and sophomores who are still in your teens: you need up to 10 hours of sleep to feel rested. So odds are, you are sleep-deprived.
  22. You’ll have to leave the party sooner
    After one school-week of not getting enough sleep, three alcoholic drinks will affect you the same way six would when you are fully rested.
  23. Don’t drive drowsy
    Don’t be afraid to take advantage of an “emergency nap” on the side of the road in your car. Every year, as many as 100,000 traffic fatalities are caused by sleepy people behind the wheel.
  24. The Einstein Method
    If you are concerned about sleeping too long, do what Albert Einstein regularly did: hold a pencil while you’re drifting off, so when you fall asleep, the pencil dropping will wake you up. (We do not guarantee you will wake up with a 180 IQ.)
  25. Missing sleep is worse at your age
    For people ages 18 to 24, sleep deprivation impairs performance more significantly than in other age brackets.
via lickystickypickywe
02. 25. 12. 09:03 pm ♥ 3

あらまし事

”あらまし”は、”ある”と言う言葉に”まし”がついたもので、”こうなって欲しい”の意味を持って、こうありたいと言う気持ちを示す。

今の春浅、私はいくつのあらまし事がある。それは、私は精神的にもっと成長できるように、自慢できる女になれるように。

最近の私の様子を反省した後、自分の誤りや欠点に目覚た。人間同士を愛するべきだと分かってるけど、未熟な私はよく我がままで周りの人を知らず知らずに傷ついた。

これから私はいつよりも周りの人の感情や意見に心を向ける。ミッシエル頑張れ~ :)